I do what I don't want. I don't do what I want.

We all have goals and without a doubt everyone wishes they could accomplish all of their goals flawlessly. So why do we continually not do what we should in order to achieve goal completion. I think most people want to be successful and feel fulfilled. Completion of goals puts us in position to succeed. Sometimes you feel as if you could accomplish anything sometimes you don't. So what puts us in the right position to be a self-actualized person. There are many different areas of life that need our attention. How do you divide your time? How do you achieve balance? Education can be a great contributor to success. I suggest you read success quotes, success motivational poems and success stories. Reading these can really put you in the success mind frame.

It is important to choose to do things we really want. Lots of times you might think you want success in a certain area but you find eventually that you never wanted to do it in the first place. You should make a concerted effort to find out what your passion is, to avoid wasting precious time. There are many way you can find this out: career test, hiring a coach, education, personality tests and just trying everything you are interested in. In my opinion it is best to do this as soon as possible. Lots of people just settle on a career that they are not really interested in, for money or perks etc. You should make the time to try lots of different things so you will not be stuck in some job you do not like at 35 and then try and make a change.

Time can be so fleeting we almost need to monitor every minute and schedule each moment to get as much as we can from life. If you do not pay attention to how you are spending your time, you will inevitably wonder where it all goes. You will look back at your day and be frustrated because you did not accomplish what you wanted. All of this requires an extreme amount of discipline and work ethic. It takes approximately 10,000 hours to get really good at something. That is a lot of time. There are so many different reasons why we do what we don't want and we don't do what we want.

So how do we fix this issue, find out all the reasons why and fix them!